Having Our Say

Having Our Say: The Delany Sisters' First 100 Years is a 1993 memoir of two American civil rights pioneers. Sarah and Elizabeth Delaney were interviewed for The New York Times by Amy Hill Hearth in 1991. The popular story was then expanded into book form. Recognized as one of the Best Books of the Year by the American Library Association, it also received a Christopher Award and American Booksellers Book of the Year Honor Award. In 1995, the story was adapted into a Broadway play, and in 1999, it was made into a CBS television movie.

When Hearth begins the book, Sadie and Bess are both more than 100 years old, giving them a unique perspective on American history since they lived through it. The women have been very close since childhood, with the elder Sadie often acting as a caretaker to her younger sister.

Sadie and Bessie discuss their youth. Neither sister married, but they had many suitors when they were young. However, the girls were bright, independent, and driven so no potential relationship ever panned out. Instead, the sisters relied on each other as they grew older, living together and taking care of the house well into their nineties. Bessie says that she plans to live to 120, the same age as Moses. Sadie says that, in that case, she must live to 122 so she can take care of her sister.



Though the sisters recognize that they are lucky to be alert and independent at their ages, they admit that there are drawbacks to growing old. They don’t have a phone in their house since all their friends and loved ones are dead. Sadie recounts a story about having her pension cut off because the Board of Education thought she was dead. The neighbors are all surprised by how capable the Delaney’s are at their ages; the sisters attribute their longevity to never marrying and not having husbands to worry about.

The next section of the book discusses the Delaney family history. Sadie and Bessie’s father, Henry, was a former slave who was freed when he was seven years old. In his early twenties, Henry converts to the Episcopal faith so he can attend college at St. Augustine’s School where he meets his future wife, Nanny. Nanny comes from a prominent family in Virginia. Her grandfather was a white man who left Nanny a substantial inheritance, which she uses to attend college where she is the valedictorian.

Henry, eventually, becomes an Episcopal bishop. He and Nanny have ten children, all of who attend college, something that was almost unheard of in the early 1900s, especially for black families. The Delaneys live on the St. Augustine’s campus. Though it is safe for them there, the children are not allowed off campus alone. Sadie, one of the oldest children, takes on a lot of responsibility early on, helping Nanny take care of the house and the other children. Since Nanny has a number of duties on campus, Sadie often takes over the household duties.



In 1896, Jim Crow laws go into effect. The Delaney family does what they can to combat these racist laws, including speaking openly about the inherent hypocrisy of the laws and staging boycotts. Nanny forbids her children from working for white people as domestics. However, when the time comes for the Delaney sisters to attend college, their father insists that they go, but also that they pay their own way and do so without scholarships.

After graduation, the sisters move to New York where it is the height of the Harlem Renaissance. Though they have heard many warnings about how dangerous the city is, after living in the South and seeing lynchings and other violence against black people, the Delaneys never feel unsafe. Sadie begins work as a teacher at a predominantly white school, and Bessie becomes a dentist.

Eventually, nearly all the Delaney siblings are living in Harlem. While the brothers become acquainted with the jazz scene and meet many famous artists, the sisters feel they must continue to act modestly since they are the daughters of a church bishop. Bessie, in particular, becomes very involved in the civil rights movement, campaigning for rights for black people and women.



During the Depression, the Delaneys help to support the people of Harlem. Jazz clubs turn into civic organizations for hungry and homeless people. In the 1940s, both sisters quit their jobs to take care of their ailing mother. Soon after this, members of the Delaney family begin to die. Henry dies first, then some of the children through accidents and illnesses, then Nanny. Devastated by the loss of their family members, Sadie and Bessie say they are happy that they lived long enough to see the birth of the civil rights movement and the abolishment of segregation.